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I’m Shinning

3 min readMar 20, 2023
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Since I can remember, there are a lot of people in this world who live by their own praise and the approval of others.

When you could simply ignore the criticism and tell yourself that you are wonderful regardless, why would you want to hear what other people have to say about you?

The fact that you have scars on your legs should not prevent you from wearing a skirt! You should feel confident in whatever you decide to wear because your scars are nothing more than a part of you. Just because you weigh more than 60 kilograms should not prevent you from enjoying your favorite fats and calories. You shouldn't be stopped from having fun with your friends because someone thinks you're too young to go out after 8 p.m. Nobody ought to prevent you from expressing your genuine thoughts since it doesn't fit with prominent attitude.

By the day's end, it is more essential to view your own reality and as alright with yourself than to look for the endorsement of others. Regardless of what other people think, What you think and do to make yourself happy are the only things that matter. Only you can make yourself happy, so you should always do things that make you happy.

Because it is yours and you should be able to do whatever you want with it, there is no reason to be ashamed of or hide your body. You should be able to do whatever you want with your body because it is a gift from God. What about this? That person ought to be eaten by you as well!

Nobody ought to advise you to hold your feelings inside and not cry since you're a person. You're permitted to be miserable and to cry. It is okay to feel. It's okay to be human. Release it. Cry.

You shouldn't be afraid to express your true feelings, and you don't have to be strong all the time. You shouldn't let anyone tell you what to wear to a party or how to dress. You can wear whatever you want. Put on makeup if you want to. If not, that's also fine. There is no obligation on anyone else to make your decision.

Stop living your life the way you want to be seen by other people.

Some people won't like you, your choices, or your style. It's ideal to simply overlook the cynicism and continue onward with your own style. It's their problem that they don't understand or appreciate it.

It's smarter to overlook the negative remarks or not go online with the prospect of being slammed, instead of going into misery since some arbitrary chick could have done without your dress, or some person preferred your best friend's image and not yours!

You've recently got to keep your head up and not let the cynicism get to you. Start loving yourself instead of torturing yourself. You don't know what your future holds.

Don't let the little things in life pass you by!




Spina bifida survivor, college student, learn, laugh, and love. SIMPLY ENJOY LIFE!